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A Colombian woman in Spain revealed why she wouldn't have a relationship with a man from that country: "They don't live to work, they work to live."

A Colombian woman in Spain revealed why she wouldn't have a relationship with a man from that country: "They don't live to work, they work to live."

The woman talked about how Spaniards manage their time. Photo: TikTok: @lau.vargas64 / iStock

Many people who move abroad often notice significant cultural differences , which can arise from having different values, beliefs, and practices. When this extends to romantic relationships, clashes can also be significant obstacles.
Laura Vargas is a Colombian woman living in Madrid, Spain . She shares her experiences in the European country on social media. Although she loves her place of residence, she revealed that she wouldn't have a relationship with a Spaniard.
"There are things that aren't about money, they're about time, how we spend our time, and what interests us," he said. He said he's heard from these men that they like to go out and enjoy themselves every day.
"They don't live to work, they work to live. I think that's wonderful, brilliant," he said. However, after a while, when the excitement of getting to know each other wears off, certain clashes arise regarding the way they view the romantic relationship.

The Colombian revealed that Spaniards like to go out and make plans. Photo: iStock

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According to Vargas, Spaniards like to go out a lot, while many Colombian and Latin American women enjoy staying home from time to time. "This is a complaint I've heard from various friends and acquaintances in this country," she revealed.
The woman recommended taking these lifestyle preferences into account, as they could cause conflict between the two partners in the future. Some of her acquaintances often have problems because they always like to enjoy their free time doing activities, but their Latin American partners don't always want to.
Cultural barriers can create significant conflicts in couples. These usually stem from differences in communication styles, values, beliefs, and expectations.

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According to the specialized website Maya Tomse Counseling and Psychotherapy, for an intercultural relationship to work well, it is essential to have an open mind, a desire to learn, and the ability to adapt.
Both partners should be interested in each other's culture, willing to learn about new customs, and share experiences. Participating in different traditions and appreciating differences helps build a respectful, enriching, and mutually understanding environment.
"These obstacles can be overcome through open dialogue, empathy, and a commitment to learning and understanding. With a strong support system, couples can embrace their unique cultural backgrounds, face challenges together, and build a love that transcends borders," the portal's experts stated.

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Dialogue is key to overcoming barriers. Photo: iStock

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